Pronouns

You know that you're not single anymore...when the words "my" or "mine" are not relevant anymore, but rather everything is "ours"...It's _our_ house and _our_ cars...and even _our_ money...You talk about _our_ vacation and _our_ plans for the future...Your son especially has caught on when he talks about _our_ tools and _our_ guns that you used to own!...You know that your dreams, goals, and future and now wrapped up in your family's collective dreams, goals, and future and you are happy to relinquish your own selfish desires for the best of everyone else.